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I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men.
I say unto you, be one; and if ye are not one ye are not mine.
More and more I find myself being drawn to the idea that what the Lord calls us to when we are invited to righteousness is not some abstract standard of behaviour, but rather a total unity; a kind of social intimacy that we can never truly grasp in our current state. Our sins are what keep us from that union, again in ways we do not grasp, so much so that we scoff at the commandments intended to lead us there.
But other than our own sins, we can let other’s sins (and even things that are not sins) keep us from that union too. We can harbour bitterness and resentment, and then when the time comes that all must be brought together, our pain will demand that we stay away. Separate. Alone, to some eternally damning degree.
We will need to lay all our burdens down if we are to enter that ultimate celestial union. Even if, for now, we must keep some at arm’s length for our (or their) safety’s sake, we can still long for the day when all barriers can fall. We can keep heaven in our heart.
Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows
In thinking of the possibilities of social organization, we are apt to assume that greed is the strongest of human motives, and that systems of administration can be safely based only upon the idea that the fear of punishment is necessary to keep men honest — that selfish interests are always stronger than general interests. Nothing could be further from the truth.
From whence springs this lust for gain, to gratify which men tread everything pure and noble under their feet; to which they sacrifice all the higher possibilities of life; which converts civility into a hollow pretense, patriotism into a sham, and religion into hypocrisy; which makes so much of civilized existence an Ishmaelitish warfare, of which the weapons are cunning and fraud?
Does it not spring from the existence of want? Carlyle somewhere says that poverty is the hell of which the modern Englishman is most afraid. And he is right.
A few days ago, Matt Walsh made a post on religious freedom that got a lot of comment. I found that post didn’t sit right with me, as much as I could agree with the basic idea. Eventually I realised that my issue was that discussing this as a question of religious freedom was the wrong framing. This isn’t about people having the right to act on their beliefs, but rather about being able to choose who they will and will not associate with. Fortunately, Walsh himself drew this conclusion the day after. This follow-up post is much better in terms of drawing out a basic principle, and has some very basic, but forgotten truths. My favourite being:
Now, instead of making this an argument about “gay rights” or “religious freedom,” I think it’s time to shift the discussion towards the broader concept of property rights, freedom of association, and free speech. That conversation got bogged down by people attempting to determine whether or not the photographer, the baker, the t-shirt maker, and the florist were “homophobic” or “bigoted.” But that isn’t the question. I don’t think they are bigots, but it doesn’t matter. Bigotry is not illegal. Hatred is not illegal. Racism is not illegal. These are spiritual crimes — problems of the heart. The government is not omniscient. It cannot possibly legislate our thoughts and emotions.
We will never be free as long as it keeps trying.
Freedom of association is fundamental to any free society, but fundamental to that freedom is its corollary: the freedom of disassociation. Without that then you do not have freedom of association, as you are forced to associate, in whatever capacity. You can no longer meaningfully choose who to have as friends, or who you will buy from, if those choices are made for you.
When stated in these terms, the freedom of association is well understood and defended (for the most part), but strangely not so when spoken of in terms of who we buy from. We have established a notion that only one side of a trade has the right to decide if they want to be party to a transaction or not. Does that not strike you as odd? Indeed, the great irony is that almost invariably those who complain about some trader claiming a right to disassociate will then call on others to exercise their right to disassociate. On its own, that would be entirely legitimate, but when doing so as part of an effort to get government to force said trader to transact, it becomes rank hypocrisy.
….and yet it’s worth asking how such a state of affairs could come about. How have we come to view such a one-sided application of free association as the epitome of justice? So much so that almost no-one will dare suggest anything different, except quibbling about in which rare instances a business will be allowed to assert their own will, and then have the audacity to call this state of affairs the ‘equal protection of the law’?
Those of you who’ve read some of this blog before will know where I’m going with this. Anti-liberty philosophies require more than just words and activism to gain the levers of power. The main ingredient is greivance. There has to be something that the people can no longer stand. Something so rotten within society that they will listen to anybody who claims to have a fix, no matter how wrong they are.
Greivance is what empowers the enemies of liberty, and the socialist narrative of capitalist exploitation drives the notion that businesses should not have the right to disassociate through the greivances of workers stemming at least as far back as the Victorian Era. There’s a reason that the lasting cultural memory of the Industrial Revolution can be summed up in the word ‘Dickens’.
But what if the narrative was wrong? What if it wasn’t capital that was the source of inequity in British society? What if it was something more fundamental? So fundamental, in fact, that today is actually no different from before?
And that’s where the titular home-owner-ism comes in. It is not capital (or even money) that is the root issue here, but land. When land can be bought and sold in perpetuity, then those who don’t have any are at the mercy of those who do. If you are at the mercy of landowners, then it matters on what grounds they can refuse you access. If every coffee shop then you can always make your own coffee (or even your own coffee shop!), but if every landowner refuses to let you use their land, then you literally have nowhere to stand.
With a Land Value Tax/Citizen’s Income setup, there is always somewhere to go, even if literally everyone else refuses to have anything to do with you. You are no longer at anyone else’s mercy. You may not be able to be precisely where you want to be (who really can?), but you can always be, and that is where freedom lies.
Don’t get me wrong, there are still consequences to being socially shunned. It is a big deal – but anyone who has ever called for a boycott of anything for any reason has no cause to complain. After all, what else is a boycott but social shunning? And who doesn’t use social means to influence people’s behaviour? Indeed, how would any society function if you couldn’t?
Honestly, though, I don’t expect hardcore professional victims to care about this. They’re having their time in the sun, but anyone who wants true freedom needs to understand that unless everybody gets it, no-one will. Greivance will see to that.
This reminded me of a conversation I had earlier in the year with a recently retired gentleman. He was reflecting on his life and remarked that things had worked out financially for him, and that his house is now worth somewhat more than what he paid for it. To which I, of course, had to ask the obvious question:
“But where did that increase come from?”
“(Laughing) Who cares?”
And he’s not wrong…
The young woman laments the whole campus landscape of alcohol-soaked hookup sex. “Women are encouraged to do it, which ignores all the risks for us,” she says. “You get embarrassed and ashamed, so you try to make light of it. Then women get violated and degraded, and they accept it. Who does this culture benefit? Alcohol predators. It doesn’t liberate anybody.”
I would be my brother’s keeper;
I would learn the healer’s art.
To the wounded and the weary
I would show a gentle heart.
About once a month or so, I see an article/blog post like this one appear on my Facebook feed. Every month the same argument is made, and each month it makes less sense to me. As you can see, it’s now bothered me to the point where I blog about it.
First things first: I don’t like the phrase “Modest is hottest”. Simply because I don’t like slogans in general. They are far too reductive and people have a tendency to take a slogan and behave like it is self-evident truth in itself, when it is merely a mnemonic summary of a larger concept. I understand why people use them, and can even accept that because I’m strange and most people aren’t like me that what I think isn’t actually relevant on this, but it doesn’t stop me being annoyed.
But that’s not what this post is about. I want to talk about this strange backlash going on these days against the concept of modesty, more specifically the idea that part of modesty’s value (at least, the part of modesty that concerns dress) is that it reduces possible temptations for others (and this is typically referring to men). Moore has written a fairly standard criticism of this for the most part, I think, so it seems like a good post to examine.
The second Article of Faith states, “We believe that men will be punished for their own sins…” Constantly telling a girl that a man’s thoughts and actions are her responsibility is doctrinally incorrect.
Leaving aside the seamless shift from the earlier ‘occasionally hear[ing]‘ to ‘constantly telling’, this subtly distorts the second article of faith, and obscures the scriptural fact that we do bear *a* (as distinct from *the*) responsibility towards others’ attitudes and actions. Jacob, son of Lehi, spoke of the duty he and his brother Joseph felt towards those for whom they had a stewardship to teach:
And we did magnify our office unto the Lord, taking upon us the responsibility, answering the sins of the people upon our own heads if we did not teach them the word of God with all diligence; wherefore, by laboring with our might their blood might not come upon our garments; otherwise their blood would come upon our garments, and we would not be found spotless at the last day.
Alma the Younger’s guilt during his incapacity was centred on the effects his words and actions had had on others to the point where he considered what he had done as tantamount to murder:
Yea, I did remember all my sins and iniquities, for which I was tormented with the pains of hell; yea, I saw that I had rebelled against my God, and that I had not kept his holy commandments.
Yea, and I had murdered many of his children, or rather led them away unto destruction; yea, and in fine so great had been my iniquities, that the very thought of coming into the presence of my God did rack my soul with inexpressible horror.
In an even more analogous case, Paul sought to avoid situations where his actions could be misinterpreted by those without sufficient gospel knowledge:
Howbeit there is not in every man that knowledge: for some with conscience of the idol unto this hour eat it as a thing offered unto an idol; and their conscience being weak is defiled.
But meat commendeth us not to God: for neither, if we eat, are we the better; neither, if we eat not, are we the worse.
But take heed lest by any means this liberty of yours become a stumbling block to them that are weak.
For if any man see thee which hast knowledge sit at meat in the idol’s temple, shall not the conscience of him which is weak be emboldened to eat those things which are offered to idols;
And through thy knowledge shall the weak brother perish, for whom Christ died?
But when ye sin so against the brethren, and wound their weak conscience, ye sin against Christ.
Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend.
The concept of immodesty as temptation even pops up in General Conference from time to time, most explicitly in recent times by Elder Oaks, I believe.
The idea that the concept of interpersonal responsibility is undoctrinal is false. Indeed, it is specifically refuted in scripture. Yes, there are fundamental limits to that responsibility, but it exists nonetheless, and it stems out of the intention that we regard each other’s welfare as our own.
It also translates closely to the idea that it is a woman’s responsibility to maintain the sexual standards of a relationship. Elder Jeffery R. Holland said, “I have heard all my life that it is the young woman who has to assume the responsibility for controlling the limits of intimacy in courtship because a young man cannot. What an unacceptable response to such a serious issue! What kind of man is he, what priesthood or power or strength or self-control does this man have that lets him develop in society, grow to the age of mature accountability, perhaps even pursue a university education and prepare to affect the future of colleagues and kingdoms and the course of the world, but yet does not have the mental capacity or the moral will to say, ‘I will not do that thing?’ No, this sorry drugstore psychology would have us say, ‘He just can’t help himself. His glands have complete control over his life–his mind, his will, his entire future.’… I refuse to buy some young man’s feigned innocence who wants to sin and call it psychology.”
[emphasis in Moore]
[First, an aside, the transcipt of this talk (which is definitely worth reading in full, btw) that Moore refers to has been edited (I think for reasons of translatability). In the original talk, the sentence "What an unacceptable response..." above was actually "Nothing I have heard on this topic makes me want to throw up more than that!", which is much more like Elder Holland language!! Anyhoo...]
The irony here is that this passage actually makes my point for me. What is it about male irresponsibility that disgusts Elder Holland so much? That it means women end up taking on more responsibility, ie that male actions and attitudes makes the female’s life harder. So Elder Holland chews the guys out.
Now consider how the address would have been different had the issue been that most women spent their life dressed for a slutwalk, while the men were showing excellent restraint. Would he *really* have spent his time telling the men how they needed to keep on showing restraint and not said a word to the women? The point is if we can reasonably adjust ourselves so as to be supportive of another’s efforts at righteousness, should we not do so?
As context for Elder Holland’s remarks, some Elder Christofferson:
There has long been a cultural double standard that expected women to be sexually circumspect while excusing male immorality. The unfairness of such a double standard is obvious, and it has been justifiably criticized and rejected. In that rejection, one would have hoped that men would rise to the higher, single standard, but just the opposite has occurred—women and girls are now encouraged to be as promiscuous as the double standard expected men to be*. Where once women’s higher standards demanded commitment and responsibility from men, we now have sexual relations without conscience, fatherless families, and growing poverty. Equal-opportunity promiscuity simply robs women of their moral influence and degrades all of society. In this hollow bargain, it is men who are “liberated” and women and children who suffer most.
*and this is something I’ve blogged on before.
It turns out though, that Moore does not, in fact, believe her own position:
I know in my own life, I have always been meticulously modest. However, I have constantly been at the receiving end of some of the most degrading comments. “Wow, you can tell you have a huge rack even in that sweatshirt!” and “You’re a solid 8, except for your boobs. They’re a 10,” probably come in as most memorable. I had FHE brothers admit to me that they assumed I was not a very good Mormon because of the way I’m built. As sweatshirt man pointed out, there is really only so much I can do, short of wearing a giant bag to hide the fact I look like a woman.
For a long time, when I would hear these things, my mind couldn’t but help think that it was somehow my fault. I clearly wasn’t a very good person, or else I wouldn’t be having men say things like this to me. My value as a daughter of God was being degraded, and instead of demanding to be treated like a human being, I shrunk back, thinking I had been the one in the wrong. [emphasis mine]
I get it. Those guys were douches. But the whole point of the post was that it should be irrelevant what other people are doing; we should be able to act and think rightly, regardless. Why does Moore suddenly claim victim status, blaming the douches for her loss of self-worth? Suck it up, kid. After all, your feelings are not their responsibility…
This is what irks me the most about this concept. If we really were completely self-contained agency modules, we could have just been plugged into our own personal (and personalised) instance of some kind of Matrix-style simulation and got things done. Yet we are here with each other. We are meant to be together. What we do affects each other, and we are meant to care about that, because we are meant to be helping.
PS – One final thought which, strictly speaking, isn’t on modesty but was actually what motivated me to post in the first place. Moore writes:
Someone once told me that when you are teaching women to change what they do to prevent being assaulted or raped, what you are actually doing is saying “Make sure he assaults someone else.” You are not fixing the real problem, which is the man’s problem.
I thought I had heard everything on this topic, but it turns out I was wrong, and it also turns that this is what makes me want to throw up most! I’m astounded first at the utter naiveity of it, as if no-one had ever considered/tried telling rapists not to rape before, but what filled me with disdain most was the realisation that if ‘teaching women what they [can] do to prevent being assaulted or raped’ is equivalent to saying ‘make sure he assaults someone else’, then not teaching women would be equivalent to saying ‘You need to take one for the team’.
And if that doesn’t make you want to throw up, then you and I are about to have a falling out.
“I can only say that I felt morally obliged to do what I did.”
“Great anger and violence can never build a nation.”
[I'm trying to see if I can speed up my posts and still have them make sense, so apologies if this fails entirely]
Much like Thatcher, Mandela dies a polarising figure. It’s just that more people believe he is a saint rather than a devil. Whatever the truth of the matter (and I wonder lazily whether anything he supposedly did in his MK days was ever the subject of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission), his death leaves South Africa in a moment of decision.
Whether he was a monster or a martyr is not the issue, but whether he will be permitted to die a man or be immortalised as a myth. I think the latter would be a disaster, regardless of his personal righteousness, for the ANC would (as I believe it currently does) use that status to create a de facto one-party state, with consequences that I think are already apparent.
Mandela must not become the posthumous Geordie Messiah of South Africa.
Let’s start at the very beginning, a very good place to start
[While I have no context from the memory itself with which to place it in my history (my next earliest memory is from approx. 3 years old), I can tell you this much. Of all my memories, this is the most lucid. In all honesty, it is more real to me than the present moment. I remember the sensation very clearly (and the suddenness of it, although I have no idea what was before - or after), and the very real sense that as far as 'I' am concerned, this is the beginning of everything. Beyond that, I post this without comment.]
…suddenly…it is pitch black. There is a kind of faint, low rumbling noise, but it seems muffled in some fashion. I think to myself “What’s going on here?!”. About 3 seconds later it becomes blindingly bright and the muffling recedes away (although the rumbling goes with it)…
[And that's it!]
It’s not as if it’s gonna kill anyone
If there’s no victim then there’s no crime
Just draw another if you think we’ve crossed the line
We fast approach an age of ubiquitous trial by media. Trial by media itself has of course been with us for a while, but what’s becoming different now is that, due to the increasingly social blog-style nature of news reporting and commentary, it’s entirely possible to round up an online posse, whip them into a frenzy and set the neighbourhood into an uproar relatively easily. Stories whose entire purpose seems to be exactly this seem to be becoming more common and the nuanced truth of the matter in question is no barrier to a good rage, and once it begins, the comments section will let the rage go on and on.
I first noticed this when trying to find out more information about the trial where Robert Colover now infamously used the word ‘predatory’ to describe a 13-year old girl. What I found during my search was a lot of outrage, a lot of “how dare he?” and very little actual reporting of the facts of the case. This is significant because Colover was the prosecuting barrister and, as this post on a law blog explains, in English Law the prosecution’s duty to present a case is not a straightforward ‘take one side and leave the rest out’. This is the archetype of the Outrage Bandwagon:
- Sensational or controversial topic
- Indifference to (or misrepresentation of) facts
- ‘With me or against me’ rhetoric, often in the form of an online petition
- (In the UK) David Cameron gets personally, publically involved in matters that are undergoing official procedures
The outrage in this case was not that Colover’s description was wrong on the facts (none have really been reported), but that somehow the description could not be true by definition, which makes no sense to me whatsoever. Certainly, such a claim should need signifcant, or even overwhelming evidence, but to dismiss it as logically impossible smacks of faulty ideology.
The worst part about the Bandwagon phenomenon is that anything that happens afterwards is suspect. After the Prime Minister personally condemns something without the faintest clue of what actually happened, it’s hard to take any subsequent official action as being nothing more than an exercise in mob-placating scapegoating. Once truth becomes secondary, all hope of proper justice is lost.
The next installment for me was Dr. Phil’s public flogging for conducting a survey. Why asking people for views on a topic makes one a moral monster is beyond me, and the petition‘s assertion that the #teensaccused hashtag is evidence that Dr. Phil was planning to whitewash the topic is, at best, flagrantly speculative.
The facepalming irony of all this, though is when the petition calls on Dr. Phil to:
produce a show that shines a light on survivors of rape and sexual assault and begin a national conversation about the specifics of consent – which includes not raping people while they are drunk or otherwise unable to consent. Yes, because of course Dr. Phil’s producers will now be totally willing to touch this topic with a bargepole. Nice going.
[I was just about to hit publish on this post when it occured to me, maybe I should check this, and it turns out they did touch it with a bargepole. Twice. And it turns out the case they discussed is still awaiting trial. So Dr. Phil was the subject of a Trial by Media while creating his own Trial by Media. I guess that bit should have been obvious, in retrospect!]
The last thing I’ll talk about here is the Bradley Manning case, even though the Bandwagon status of this one is slightly questionable, because I find it strange to hear people talk of his being a whistleblower. None of the defenses of Manning that I have seen have even attempted to challenge the description of how he got the data and the indiscriminate nature of his selection of it. That what was released to Wikileaks included evidence of governmental deceit appears to have been mostly accidental and certainly didn’t justify the release of much of what was. Whistleblowing is an action, not an effect.
Contrastingly, while the Edward Snowden leaks aren’t over yet and we don’t know everything that he took, this does seem prima facie to be a case of a targeted release to expose specific wrongdoing. I don’t know whether US law as written would recognise his activities as legitimate, but so far I would be happy in a moral sense to consider Snowden a whistleblower. However you cut it, though, whistleblowing by definition changes the life of the whistleblower forever. It takes a special kind of courage to do, and we dishonour it when we apply the label seemingly without concern for what actually happened.
Anyway, believe it or not, this was actually intended as a couple of introductory paragraphs for post on another controversy entirely, that of the proposed boycott of Orson Scott Card’s ‘Ender’s Game’ film that came out recently. If I’m speedy, maybe I’ll have that post done tonight too. (Ok, you can stop laughing now!)
Oracle: What’s really going to bake your noodle later on is, would you still have broken it if I hadn’t said anything?
Wherefore, the Lord God gave unto man that he should act for himself. Wherefore, man could not act for himself save it should be that he was enticed by the one or the other.
This popped up on my Facebook feed today. While empiricial means are, by their very nature, insufficient to answer the question of free will, I am somewhat interested in hearing the philosophical arguments to see if there’s any wisdom to be gleaned. As I’m sure you’ve guessed by now, I wasn’t impressed by what I found here.
GS: Right—now the deeper point cuts in. For suppose you do want to acquire a want you haven’t got. The question is, where did the first want—the want for a want—come from? It seems it was just there, just a given, not something you chose or engineered. It was just there, like most of your preferences in food, music, footwear, sex, interior lighting and so on.
I suppose it’s possible that you might have acquired the first want, that’s the want for a want, because you wanted to! It’s theoretically possible that you had a want to have a want to have a want. But this is very hard to imagine, and the question just re-arises: Where did that want come from? You certainly can’t go on like this forever. At some point your wants must be just given. They will be products of your genetic inheritance and upbringing that you had no say in. In other words, there’s a fundamental sense in which you did not and cannot make yourself the way you are.
The fundamental problem with this entire argument is actually that it’s just a long-winded exercise in question-begging. It only works if you assume that decisions are determined simply based on desire. I can see why people consider that a reasonable assumption, but it’s still merely an assumption, and more importantly it is, at the root, merely a rewording of the statement “people behave deterministically”. It’s just the same old circular materialist assertion, with nothing that’s actually new or enlightening.
Things however take a turn for the predictably bizarre later on:
BLVR: Let’s talk about the objective attitude for a moment. In 1962 your father, P.F. Strawson, wrote a famous paper that continues to haunts anyone working on free will today. In the paper he claims that when you adopt the objective attitude towards another human being, you lose some essential features of interpersonal relationships. You’ll start to see this person as an object of social policy, a subject for “treatment”—some Orwellian scenarios come to mind—but you can no longer see them fully as a person. But if we’re going to accept the belief that there is no free will, no DMR, it seems we’ll have to take the objective attitude towards all people, including those closest to us. Are the implications of this as cold and bleak as your father suggests?
GS: No, I don’t think so. I disagree that regularly taking the objective attitude to someone means giving up on treating them fully as a person. In fact I think it’s essential to the closest human relations. I think that it is rather a beautiful capability that we have. It is deeply involved in compassion and love. I don’t think love is blind. I think love sees all the faults and doesn’t mind. It brings the point of view of the universe into our lives, where it is (as far as I can see) welcome. The point of view of the universe can be part of care, caring.
This is a completely nonsensical answer. Whether treating someone fully as a person is essential to human relationships tells you nothing about whether taking the objective attitude means giving up on that treatment. Nothing he says actually answers the charge, it’s all platitudes and hand-waving. This approach is typical to everything I’ve ever seen on the “illusion” of consciousness. “It’s not real, but it’s really, really important, honest!” I just can’t take it seriously.